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Saturday, December 31, 2016

The One with the 2016 Lists

The year 2016 brought with it so much. So much Love.  So much Adventure.  So much Growth.  As the New Year is here I look back at the best that 2016 had to offer. The following are my Lists of Top 5’s.


MOMENTS (in no particular order)

5. Employment: 
At the start of 2016 I began my stint as a long-term substitute in fourth grade. That was certainly a learning experience and I am grateful for those students and team of educators. 2016 also brought full-time employment back into my life. Working for Jewish Vocational Service as a Disability Navigator has so far proven to be a well-accepted employment offer. Here’s to hoping that remains true throughout 2017.




4. My Birthday: 
Ghost tours, lavish drinks (tasteables and otherwise), and Brie cheese at the Stanley Hotel made for a unique way to celebrate my last birthday as a twenty-something.  I excitedly await my next visit to The Stanley and will forever expect candles in Brie cheese on my birthday. Read about it here.




3. Relocation:
Halfway through the year my boyfriend relocated to Kansas City to be with me. I am forever grateful for his willingness to transfer his work and his life. Not without challenge, having him here has been a lesson in love, an adventure into new routines, and a glimpse into the future. Read about it here.



2. Surprise:
With help, successfully pulling off a surprise for my boyfriend definitely makes the list. Knowing how happy he was to have his best friends with him in his new home and to share with them his life in Kansas City made for many happy hearts.



1. Traditions:
I have recently realized that my family has more holiday traditions than I thought. Independence Day on the lake, Santa-Cali-Gon over Labor Day weekend, singing the 12 Days of Christmas on Christmas Eve, and Christmas morning coffee cake are some such traditions. My most favorite of all though, the Christmas lighting ceremony at the Plaza, I have missed out on for the last number of years. This year, not only was I back to tradition, but I had my boyfriend there to experience the magic of the lights with my family and me. It has been with great gratitude that I thank him for enduring such fantastical family traditions.




PARTIES/REUNIONS (in no particular order)

5. Happy Birthday, Dwight/ Welcome to Kansas City, Jon Party:
Family and friends gathered for 12 hours of fun to help celebrate my dad turning 60 and to help welcome my boyfriend to Kansas City. It was a party to remember, for sure.



4. Harry Potter Party/ Jon’s Birthday:
My best friend and her family hosted a very elaborate Harry Potter Party complete with Moaning Myrtle in the bathroom, a Quidditch match in the backyard, House Cups and a Sorting Hat, Horcruxes, chocolate frogs, butter beer, a Marauder’s map of their house, a birthday cake, and a marathon of the movies.






3. Wayfare Reunion:
The nostalgia hits hard when I return to my Wayafre family and I am embraced with open arms. That is love of God in the flesh. Read about it here.



2. Narnia Christmasgiving Dinner:
I love when my framily group gathers together. It is always full of laughs, food, drinks, and games.


1. UCM Roomie Reunion:
I had the chance to reunite with my college roommates over Labor Day weekend. The last time we were together was ages ago and it was such fun to be together again and laugh for a while.


BOOKS (in no particular order)

5. Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, J.K. Rowling:

So fun to revisit the series and fall even more in love with it.

4. Persepolis, Marjane Satrapi:

An interesting format for an interesting topic. This is a new favorite.

3. Norwegian Wood, Haruki Murakami:

So far, I enjoy everything I read by this author.

2. Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children, Ransom Riggs:

A fun and quick journey into a world of wonder.

1. The BFG, Roald Dahl: 

Such fun language and adventure. I even have my very own BFG in real life now.

Not to be left off of any lists are the following memories in pictures:












Here's to 2017!

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

The One with Milk and Honey


 Last Christmas my cousins and I started a beer exchange. This year we added books. The book I got was Milk and Honey. Although I do not usually read much poetry, this was a nice and quick collection with some definite points to ponder in regards to hurting, loving, breaking, and healing. I will share the following excerpt, in which I see some of my own tendencies…
 
“you treat them like they
have a heart like yours
but not everyone can be as
soft and as tender
you don’t see the
person they are
you see the person
they have the potential to be
you give and give till
they pull everything out of you
and leave you empty.”
-          rupi kaur
 
I look forward to future book exchanges with my cousins. Here's to seeing the potential in people and living with the sweetness that can be found in the now.

Friday, December 16, 2016

The One with Star Wars: Rogue One and Christmas Carols

“Be careful not to choke on your aspirations.”- Darth Vader
This week has been comprised of talking and crying my way through disappointments of unmet expectations and how to stay optimistic with future ones. Even though my body is seeking refuge in the form of my cozy and comfy bed, my heart and mind are telling me to tie a knot and hang on.
Between seeing the newest Star Wars story on the big screen opening night (and again tonight) and singing along with adored Christmas carols in the car on the way home afterward, the days that have made up this long week have been reconciled. 
“For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.”- O Holy Night

Thursday, December 1, 2016

The One where Addie Beth Turns Seven

     Seven years ago today I remember feeling jealous that my parents were able to be at the hospital for the birth of my cousin’s daughter. At the time, I lived away from home, and was living vicariously to celebrate the new babe. 
     Although I did not have to live vicariously through becoming the new babe’s godmother or through her first birthday party, I did still live away from home. With no intention to ever live back at home I often wondered about having a relationship with my goddaughter and how it would ever evolve. 
     Fortunately, I have lived back at home now for 6 years and every single day I thank God for the blessing that is having an actual relationship with and being close to my goddaughter. She is my favorite little human. She challenges my thinking and my actions. She makes me realize how precious life is and helps me to show love in creative ways. I love the days when we can go on Hilly and Addie adventures to see a movie or to explore Science City. I love playing games and doing puzzles with her. Even though I am terrible at art, I love helping her illustrate a book that she has authored. And I especially love having her stay the night at my house for sleepover parties so that I can spoil her rotten which I will be doing soon. 
     My aunts are special people to me. As a kid they would invite me over and spoil me rotten. Even now, as a big kid, they still invite me over and spoil me rotten. They’ve taught me how to bake, how to travel, how to vote, and how to love. It is to my aunts that I look when I need inspiration on how to be a good role model for my goddaughter. I can only hope that when she is 30 and looks back on her childhood memories with me that she feels half as much acceptance, understanding, and love as I do when I look back on mine.

     Happy 7th Birthday Addie Beth!